You’re going to need to keep a little secret from your partner. In this rare case, the saying “What they doesn’t know won’t hurt them” holds true—at least from a moral standpoint.
Don’t Overthink It Too Much, But Make It Special.
Your Job: Decide on the when, where, and who for the proposal.
Setting the Scene – To start your proposal checklist, decide on the time and place for this moment. Choose a location that holds meaning for both of you. Alternatively, select an activity you both enjoy and incorporate it into your proposal.
- Consider Your ‘Guest List’
- Who will be there besides the two of you?
- Will it be an intimate occasion for just the two of you, or will family be involved?
- Are you hiring a photographer?
- Will you use your own camera to record the moment discreetly?
- Is a friend going to help with video or will you have the photographer do that?
- Hiding in Plain Sight
- If your partner is particularly fashion-conscious and you know they’ll want to choose their outfits for this moment, no worries!
- I can reach out to them under the disguise of a model call. I’ve also had success with the classic “You’ve won a free shoot!” tactic—works like a charm.
- Outfit Coordination
- Consult with someone who knows their style well. They can help you borrow a few items from their wardrobe for post-proposal photos.
- Nail Prep
- Some women prefer to have their nails done for engagement photos. Ask one of her girlfriends to suggest a girls’ day out before the big moment.
- If this seems too obvious, don’t stress. I’m not one for fancy nails myself. It would seem odd to me if someone suddenly pushed me to have my nails done.
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